Empathy in Action: Mastering the ‘She Gets Me’ Structure for Course Creators”

In the bustling world of course creation, where everyone competes for attention, how do you ensure your voice is heard? 

The secret lies not just in what your course is, but in how deeply you connect with your audience. We’re not just talking about course creation; we’re delving into the art of building profound, empathetic connections. 

If you’ve ever felt like you’re shouting into the void, unsure how to make your course resonate in a crowded market, this blog post is for you.

Understanding Your Market: The Key to Success

The Biggest Pain Point: Filling Your Course

The biggest hurdle in course creation isn’t the actual creation process; it’s attracting the right people and those who want to be taught. 

To bridge this gap, start by getting to know your audience. 

Who are they? What keeps them up at night? What are their aspirations? 

This understanding is the cornerstone of creating a course that doesn’t just inform but truly resonates with your audience’s core needs and desires.


The "She Gets Me" Structure: Your Ultimate Tool

Cutting Through a Saturated Marketplace

We live in an era that is brimming with online courses, so standing out is about more than just content; it’s about connection. 

The “She Gets Me” structure is your compass in navigating the crowded marketplace, guiding you to craft messages that resonate deeply with your audience.

Identify the Problem: Dive deep into the emotions of your audience. What are their struggles? Understanding their ‘ice cream on the kitchen floor’ moment – that point of utter frustration or despair – is key to showing that you truly get where they’re coming from.

Recognize the Baddies: Every story has its villains. In your audience’s journey, these might be societal pressures, common misconceptions, or industry-specific challenges. By acknowledging these baddies, you validate their struggles and position your course as a much-needed partner.

Envision the Brand New Day: Paint a picture of the transformation your course offers. How will their lives change? Focus on tangible results and the emotional uplift they’ll experience. This vision of a brighter future is what will ultimately draw them to your course.

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Implementing the "She Gets Me" Structure

“Turning Empathy into Action”

Understanding your audience is just the starting point. 

The real magic happens when you turn this understanding into action. 

The ‘She Gets Me’ structure is a practical, actionable tool that transforms the way you communicate with your potential clients. It’s about putting empathy at the forefront of your marketing strategy. 

Here’s how you can implement this powerful approach:

  • Brain Dump Exercise: Dive deep into your customers’ world. Imagine their struggles, their ‘ice cream on the kitchen floor’ moments. This isn’t just about listing problems; it’s about immersing yourself in their experiences, feeling their pain, and understanding their lowest points.
  • Create a Visual Reminder: Transform your insights into a visual beacon. This isn’t just a piece of paper; it’s a constant, vivid reminder of who you’re speaking to. Place it where it’s always in sight, ensuring your message always resonates with empathy and understanding.
  • Incorporate in Your Marketing: Let this newfound language seep into every fibre of your marketing. From your social media posts to your website, every word should speak directly to your audience’s heart, addressing their needs and aspirations.

Imagine a marketing approach that doesn’t just talk at your audience but talks to them. 

By adopting the ‘She Gets Me’ structure into your marketing strategy, you create a bond that goes beyond the transactional. It’s more about establishing trust, building rapport, and creating a community around your course that thrives on mutual understanding and support.



The journey of course creation is not just about the content; it’s about connecting with your audience on a deeper level. 

The ‘She Gets Me’ structure is a way to genuinely understand and address the needs of your audience. 

By implementing this approach, you’re not just filling seats; you’re building a community that values your insights and trusts your guidance.

Remember, the success of your course lies in how well you resonate with your audience. Use empathy as your guide, and watch your course transform from a simple offering to a meaningful experience.

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